We surprised NJ by picking him up a little early and with special guests in the car. The five of us went to grab some sandwiches since they hadn't eaten lunch yet. NJ already had lunch so he got a treat of some i-c-e c-r-e-a-m.
Auntie Evin and Uncle Greg stopped in for a couple hours. We maybe get to see each other only once a year or two, we always wish it was more often. Too bad we can't live across the street from each other the way we did when we were four. Such great memories. So glad we're still making more. NJ showed them his legos of coarse and even showed the ones he didn't have (and wished he had).
NJ was not done with building legos.
I suggested he build a garage. Baba helped him with finding pieces.
It went from garage to a garage with a fueling station, watch tower, teleportation station, and jail (with two criminals).

He insisted on having a dessert and or snack even though he complained of a tummy ache. I told him he couldn't since he faked a tummy ache. It was strange that he was acting up so I tried to have a talk with him. He was so fidgety and not paying attention so I started to get upset until I stopped to ask him what was going on and how he's feeling. At first I got nothing. Until I asked him if it was because he missed Baba. To my surprise he broke down crying and nodding his head. It's the first night back at judo after the holiday break from the dojo. Baba and him have really bonded. So much that I am no longer the go-to person for him. This is a bittersweet change. I miss being the one he wants and the one to comfort him. It also makes me so happy that they have a good strong bond that melts my heart. He goes to wake up Baba instead of me, calls for him, waits for him, wants to show him everything, tell him everything, share everything, it's the sweetest thing. I've been praying for these boys to have a loving relationship that will grow stronger and stronger especially when he gets older. Trust, safety, and strong bonds can never start too young. I'm a happy Mama.
I also had a talk with him about how pretty soon when he's old enough he can go to judo with Baba too. But to go to judo faster he has to practice good listening and following directions. That way he will learn faster and it will be safer. Safer for him to not get hurt and safer for the other person not to get hurt. He seemed to like that idea. And I told him that the sooner he went to bed the sooner he would see Baba when he woke up. So glad he went to sleep happier. After all that, I let him choose one thing to have before brushing his teeth and going to bed. Thank goodness that he chose veggie chips. He even explained to me how he liked each different piece of dried vegetable.